Right now, after the long hiatus, I have a lot of posts going in my mind and screaming at me to let them out and share them here. I planned to start from yesterday itself but unfortunately for me (and fortunately for you) internet was not connecting. So, I start today
This post is a question - a question to all those who are married or committed. Those who have found their soul mates, thier life partners. May be it is great having someone to share everything with, and you want us single people to enjoy the same.
But who gives you the right to interfere in our private affairs, to judge us, to consider us liars when we say that we are happy being single at the moment. May be we have not found the right person yet, maybe we are commitment phobic, or may be we are just plain happy being single.
Who asks you to discuss us with a hint of sympathy in your voice - as if we are faking our happiness and are internally dying to get into a commitment with anybody and everybody? Who allows you to perser us with advise on how to get a girl (or a boy, as the case may be)? Who asks you to count the days for us and tell us that we are getting old and that we need to get into a commitment soon.
And since when this all this start to matter. Since when did having a boyfriend or a girlfriend become a necessity and a social obligation. Call me an idiot and a romantic, but I believe that one should enter a relationship when one feels like, and not because of social or peer pressure.
Am sorry for boring you people, but I have been brimming with anger since a friend of mine called me up and told me that he has been discussing my "SITUATION" with a mutual aquaintence. Mind it - not with a friend, but with an aquaintence.
I have nothing against relationships. I just am plain happy being single at the moment. So all you "pseudo" friends and advisors pay heed, the next time you come to me with unsolicited advise - you are going to get a mouthful and then some more. So, beware.
This is Hashir, signing off,
Over and out
